A series of hot threesomes might revive your sex life.
Category: Savage Love
This column is about dicks
On being attracted to people with penises and also being extremely not into penises
It’s time to worry about monkeypox
The best edible for weed and more quickies
Did my ‘bonding hormone’ get stage fright?
Investigating one man’s failure to romantically attach to a vacation rando
Pride, prejudice, and the ‘bamboo cage’
On giving thought to the cultural forces that may have shaped “preferences”
Renegotiating limits during a scene is never OK
On bad Doms, fluid pronouns, and identifying as bisexual
Listen to your friends and your therapist
Plus, why the logistics of a threesome matter
Tugging does not mean yanking!
What happens when your laptop dies and your Instagram followers have questions
Frayed nerves because of freysexual ‘lover’
A committed romantic partner can’t have sex with people they love
Bewjeweled butt plugs and the war on abortion
This is a column about worries.
My wife has ‘new relationship energy’ with her girlfriend
Agreeing to a one-sided open relationship is not the same as agreeing to one-sided polyamory.
My wife wakes up at 3 AM to masturbate
Quickies on topping, whipped cream, and chastity cages
I put my husband in a sleepsack and play video games
A kinky reader worries about accidental death on “storage nights”
Turn that pelvic frown upside down
And why you shouldn’t give your money to Gertrude
Forever vs. now
I’ve always thought of this column (and my podcast) as a conversation I’m having with friends about our love and/or sex lives after we’d had a few drinks. (Or, these days, shared an edible.)